In most cases, Kentucky parents and others who have been divorced should receive shared physical custody of their children. This is because it is often in the best interest of the child to do so. An exception may be made in the event that a parent is abusive or otherwise puts the child in danger. However, shared parenting may not be as prevalent as it should be because of myths that have been propagated over the years.
For instance, it is thought that parents who don’t get along shouldn’t have a shared parenting arrangement. Some believe that this could expose the child to conflict compared to being in one home the majority of the time. However, children may actually be exposed to less conflict when both parents have custody of their sons or daughters. Furthermore, parents can usually work together to raise their children despite their feelings for each other.
Shared parenting may also be shunned because it is thought that children would rather stay in one home with one parent. The truth is that a child typically wants a relationship with both parents. This is generally the case even if it is a hassle to move between the two parents on a regular basis. In some cases, this may be true regardless of the child’s age.
In a child custody case, the law generally wants what is best for the child. Therefore, parents may need to resign themselves to the fact that the other parent will enjoy parenting time. An attorney may be able to help a parent protect his or her parental rights or obtain additional rights. In some cases, this may mean seeking joint custody or regular visitation with a son or a daughter.